shinymama Profile Information

Non-Conformist Soul Will Never Die!
Age 52 From New York, New York - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
I Would Describe Myself As  
Born and raised in NYC. Rebellion and rock-n-roll in my youth. Spent most adult years just floating: worked as a bartender, pursued artistic endeavors, and tried to be "free".

Around age 40 I finally decided to "grow up", so I got my first-ever steady-paycheck job, and had a kid.

Now I'm an established and responsible single mom working for The Man, but ha HA, they will never kill my non-conformist soul!

Despite it all, intellect intact, kindness/gratitude/humility maintained, and fun consistently pursued.

I like going on dates. I'm not limited by expectations or specific agendas. Trading stories over whiskey in a dive bar is fun. Clicking with someone is an exceptional treat. Love would be embraced 100%.

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
My Height Is  
5' 4 (1.63 m)
My Eyes Are  
My Ethnicity Is  
My Marital Situation Is  
I Have Kids  
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids  
Body Art  
Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is  
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
No pets
Willing To Relocate  

More about her

What genre of music do you enjoy most?  
What is your favorite band?  
Too hard to choose. Different music for different moods.
Who is your favorite writer?  
Allie Brosh, Denis Johnson, Steve Almond
What is the best site about Goth culture?  
I'm not into Goth


My Education Level Is  
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
My Speciality Is  
Medical / Health
My Job Title Is  
I Live  
With Kid(s)
At Home  
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker  
I Drink  
Yes - Socially


Back In High School, I Was A  
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is  
Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing, Dark
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Theater, Travel
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Great conversation and flirting with someone I really like over a glass of bourbon in a dive bar with a good jukebox.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Goofy


My Religion Is  
I Attend Services  
My Political Views Are  
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is  
wow. heavy question
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Raunchy


On Tv, I Always Watch  
Documentaries, Dramas, Movies
My Top 3 Tv Shows Are  
Six Feet Under, Breaking Bad, Vikings
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Drama, Documentary, Horror, Thriller
My Top 3 Movies Are  
Encounters at the End of the World, One Flew over Cuckoo's Nest, Forbidden Zone
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Rock, Metal, Blues, Soul, Folk, Punk
My Top 3 Musical Artists Are  
No "Top 3"... Some faves: Nick Cave, Clutch, Stones (but only up to Tattoo You)
When I Read, I Always Read  
Auto-biography, Biography, Fiction, History, Humor, Philosophy, Satire
My Top 3 Books Are  
Hyperbole and a Half, My Life in Heavy Metal, Geek Love
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Laughing and drinking with friends, falling in love/lust, trading stories, making people laugh, dancing to music that has grit or soul, being on stage in front of an audience

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Power, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Date, Intimate, Committed